A little long yes, but trust me, the read is worth it.
Abu Hurairah 'Abd al-Rahman bin Sakhr, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, say:
-“Stay away from that which I forbid you to do, and do that which I command you to do to the best of your capacity. Verily the people before you were destroyed only because of their excessive questioning and their disagreement with their Prophets.”- Bukhari and Muslim
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The instructions of the Prophet (saw) are simple and eloquent. Firstly and most importantly, understand and accept all the things that are Haram and keep yourself far away from them.
This is the most important thing that you can do; it is much more important than nawaafil/extra deeds.
Some Sahaba would teach their students that “to return a dirham unlawfully obtained is better than giving a thousand in charity”. So firsty, the most pleasing thing to Allah (swt) is to repent from committing Haram and stay away from it. This is something natural that everyone can do. Rasulullah did not ask us to stay away from Haram as much as we can. That is because he knew that it is possible for every human being to stay away from the Haram. Every human being is capable if he follows the guidance of Allah (swt).
The problem today is addictions. The Shaytan is working very hard to hook many Muslims to haram things so much so that it becomes hard for them to live without the Haram. As a result they become naturally inclined to do things that harm them and that result in displeasure from Allah (swt).
Abu Hurairah 'Abd al-Rahman bin Sakhr, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, say:
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The solution? Let’s look to the guidance of Allah and his Messenger, the light that will clarify any misconceptions that we have in our brains or that Shaytan has planted in them.
*Leave (O mankind, all kinds of) sin, open and secret. Verily, those who commit sin will get due recompense for that which they used to commit. 6.120
As far as music is concerned, it is also an addiction. The proof that it is in an addiction is that those who listen to it are not willing to give it up and replace it with Quran which they know is more beneficial to them (for every letter you hear in the mode of pleasing Allah (Swt) you get 10 good deeds, not for every word, for every letter). The solution? Gradually replace the music you listen to with Quran; try to listen to more and more Quran each day and be consistent. Stop listening to music in the car, instead only listen to Quran in the car. And when at home begin reading the Quran daily and pondering over its verses. With the help of Allah (swt) gradually you will depend less and less upon music and you will become addiction free.
For Sisters: O Allah, I am Your slave, daughter of Your slave, son of Your female slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every Name belonging to You which You have named Yourself with, or which you have revealed in Your Book, or which You taught to any of Your creation, or which You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur'aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety.)
It is not going to be easy to overcome addictions, but following the guidance of Allah (swt) will make it possible for us. We have to strive (Jihad) against our own souls and the unnatural inclinations that Shaytan has made for us until we are back to the natural disposition of being able to completely stay away from the Haram.
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If someone continues to do a deed every day it shows that he is really consistent in Loving Allah (Swt) and following the Messenger and that he is not weak minded. The small deeds build up; if someone starts reading some Quran every day, he may finish reading it in a couple months; if he starts memorizing a verse a day, he may finish Surat al-Baqarah in a year. The importance here is that when performing extra deeds (which by all means are necessary in improving our hearts and getting close to Allah (swt) ), we have to make sure we are doing them out of love of Allah (swt) and that we are doing them in an amount that we can be consistent with (as the Prophet (Saw) told us, do as much as we are able). This way we can be consistent in earning Allah (Swt)’s pleasure. If we do too much extra worship at once then we feel exhausted and we abandon the good habits.
Allah swt told us:
My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I shall love him. ... Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him, and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it. I do not hesitate about anything as much as I hesitate about [seizing] the soul of My faithful servant: he hates death and I hate hurting him. –Bukhari
Most of what is described above is contained in the single statement of Rasulullah (saw) at the beginning, this is the eloquence of the last Messenger (saw). Subhanallah.
Let us all abandon the Haram and then begin doing consistent nawaafil acts so that we may draw closer to Allah (swt) until he loves us inshaAllah =) .
Anything good in this is purely from Allah (Swt) and anything bad is of course from myself.
May Allah guide us all to Ihsan. –Ameen
Asalamualaykumwarahmatallahiwabarakatuh
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